Open-minded individual who likes to enjoy life. Stimulating conversations to actually engage in, not to debate, it would be nice. Whatever happens, happens. I can state to you what I am looking for, but it is only God, fate and destiny that will determine our futures. I enjoy helping people, I love sports, games, watching movies, traveling, shopping, and observing. I can state to you that for once I would like to meet a man that has minimal insecurities, and if so, at least admit to it. I love to relax and enjoy the one I am with. Looking For: The characteristics that I would consider a man should have in order to maintain any type of friendship, relationship, or what have you, may include, but are not limited to: intellectuality, diversification, openness, honesty, the ability to be clean with one's self, environment, and surroundings, to exhibit excellent communication skills, to admit when one is wrong, and confidence.