.I'm physically fit,an avid reader of fiction(bourne identity type work) and non fiction (africa's's gift to america).i have old school principles which means i was taught to be respectful of women.i'm a low key individual who enjoys movies,plays,concerts and other cultural entertainment.i don't drink,smoke or use drugs (not even the kind you smoke).i refuse to use anything that hinders my mental or physical growth and development.i enjoy poetry and dining at a quality restaurant with a lady.. Looking For: i'd like the company of a woman who knows how to be a lady.a person who refrains from bad language and negative attitudes.someone who can be smart and feminine and comfortable with both.someone who takes care of their body and also enriches their mind.a lady who knows how to give balance to a man.NOTE:As of 6/23/11 I have about 30 days left of full membership and I don't believe I'll renew.It has been interesting to say the least.