I don't believe in the "perfect mate", but I do believe there is someone perfect for me... Who complements my issues, and circumstances and I theirs... I've been extremely disappointed by these dating sites because most times who the person says he is is not who he turns out to be in the end... I am not perfect. I am an introvert of sorts which can be extremely distasteful if you like a woman who is outgoing. I have my moments but for the most part I am a homebody by choice. I have three children... Two are grown and one is a preteen. I'm close to all of them, but can love more children if you have them. I'm a professional writer and poet. I'm a "Church Girl"... I spend a great amount of time busy in church and would seek someone who is very similar. I'm a sensitive, smart, caring person who would support the right one as they pursue their own endeavors.