Can anyone keep it real?

I am very outgoing, open-minded,energetic, sexual, spontaneous, honest and down to earth,If i had an man ; he would be my shinning star when i walk through the dark,my awakening , meaning the one that pleases me ... he will get the same treatment and more! One thing i love to do is shop for man when i go shopping with my girlfriends, make dinner for him before he get off of work , have his clothes iron for the next day for work , so when he get home all he need to do is relax and watch the game. OK you should get the idea!!!! I believe everything happens for a reason, why you are reading this and looking at my picture.... we shall see if you will hear my AWAKENING. i love going out to shoot pool, dancing at clubs( p.s. i go to clubs once every blue moon), bowling, traveling to new places to explore my horizons, fishing, sightseeing, and best to believe i love to stay home and relax for the most part .read books like Steven King, write poems, sew clothes and watch tv.. I am very open on mostly all activities.I would like to met someone who have their head on straight. what i mean about that ; someone who has a job /career like i do, that respect their mother/ grandmother/women period and themselves, that is very caring, sexual, affectionate,honest, at least graduated from high school or have an G.E.D. , that don't live with there mother or auntie/family members.... (its different when you and your family member own or rent a house or apt together). Looking For: I want an man that can make me laugh , hold an conversation , capatible with me ( there is never a silient moment)affectionate, meaning when we watch a movie, u put ur hand around me ;holding me instead of just laying there;show some interest that u are digging me( cause i will do the same), show me that i play a role in ur life some how in a positive way..., i want someone that is down to earth ; that can except me for me and my lovely children.!)please be clean , i really dont like a dirty house or person! i want a man or even a friend that can be conservative and hard ( if u know what i mean) someone that is not soft meaning whining about everything like a female. He can be sensitive in some areas specially in bed. I want him hard , a brick , demanding in some areas( cause i can get stubborn SOMETIMES)so basically SOMEONE THAT CAN PUT ON HIS THUG SUIT AND HIS WORK SUIT AT THE SAME TIME .PUT THAT TOGETHER OH YEA UMMMM MY BROTHER